

“We want to win the whole thing.”
“Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We are all meant to shine..” by Marianne Williamson
That's Ali Farokhmanesh, the Northern Iowa guard who hit the game-icing 3-pointer Saturday after Kansas had whittled its deficit to one. Typical of an underdog, Farokhmanesh concedes that when he was in high school, he wasn't even sure he'd play Division I basketball.
"To go from that to, we're in the Sweet Sixteen, we just beat the No. 1 team in the country," Farokhmanesh said. "I mean, if someone would have told me that back then I would have laughed at them probably. But I think it shows that hard work really does pay off."
2010 Team Banquet: March 23, 6:30 P.M. High School Cafeteria, Door #4
Itinerary:
5:45 Coaches and parents help set up the cafeteria
6:30 Introductions by Coach Kendrick
6:40 Coach Don Endress: The Freshman Season
6:55 Invocation by Jacob Eldridge
6:56 Eat
7:20 Honoring the support staff of the Varsity and J.V. teams
7:30 Coach Donald James: The Junior Varsity Season
7:45 Coach Kendrick: The Varsity Season
Approximately 8:30 Dismissal
*All family including relatives and siblings are invited. Please give your head count to Sonia Roach at 317-508-2210 by Monday, March 22, at 12:00 noon.
Relaxed business attire can be worn by all; however, players should dress in this attire.
Food Items and responsible persons:
Pizza – Boys’ Basketball Program
Dessert Items - Varsity and Junior Varsity Parents
Drinks – Freshman players (since we are serving the masses, a variety of drinks, non-alcoholic of course, is acceptable)
Ice – Boys’ Basketball Program
Paperware – Freshman players
Serving Utensils – Coach Kendrick
Each player will be recognized by having his name called. Each player will receive a certificate of participation unless they have met the requirements to letter at the varsity level. Award winners will be recognized by coaches when they discuss each season.
A sincere ‘thank you’ to all players, parents, team moms, the BHS athletic office, and to Greg Hill and Bret Daghe for the tremendous support throughout the year. A special ‘thank you’ goes to senior parents and players. We will miss you and your sons!
I have been a part of teams that have won championships at every level; as highschoolers we won the state championship, as college athletes we won championships, and as a college coach we won championships. I have also been a part of teams that have been the worst in the conference - both as a coach and an athlete. Through these experiences I have learned some poignant lessons that will benefit you if, that is, you are in the business of winning championships.
In 7th grade I participated in my first science fair. I had been home schooled up until that point so I was very excited about the opportunity to display my creativity to someone other than my mother and my imaginary friends. I picked an extremely original idea for my first science fair; I chose to craft a volcano. I worked tirelessly for a week. I refused any assistance from my parents and even Bagbom, the most intelligent of my imaginary friends. I was quite proud of my creation and couldn't wait for Friday to show it to the world.
Friday came around; I put on my Smurf glasses, tucked my t-shirt into my jeans, and carried my volcano to the car. I was one of the first to arrive. I set up my station, unfolded my cardboard display and set my tiny, non-working model in the center. I stood with pride to survey the competition as the other students began to arrive and unfold their creations. (By creations I mean the fully functional monstrosities that their parents paid NASA to create out of rare metals!) I began to feel betrayed by Bagbom the imaginary friend. To make matters worse, just across the row from me was Timmy. He also had made a volcano. His, though, was the size of a small SUV, with lava pumping out the top, smoke he could turn on and off and audio bellowing sounds of desolation and destruction. It was the soundtrack of my pride going up in flames.
I quickly packed up my sad little mole-hill of a volcano, and ran home. It was 10 miles away. On the way I blamed the teacher for not explaining the assignment properly. I blamed my mom for not helping me more. I vowed never to play with Bagbom again. I even fogged up my Smurf glasses with my tears.
Since my recovery from this experience I have asked thousands of athletes to update me on their season. I ask how their team is performing. The vast majority of the time I hear them tell me how their coach isn't very good. How their team doesn't care enough. How no one is as committed as they are. How their big man won't rebound. How their point guard won't pass the ball. How their team doesn't defend.
I then ask what they do every day in practice to change the issue. I am answered with a blank look. Most athletes don't own their teammates' - like I refused to own my sorry little volcano.
What these athletes failed to realize - as did the younger version of myself - was that champions own each drill they participate in. Winners own the performance of their teammates. Special players will not allow a teammate to do something incorrect over and over again throughout a season. Leaders take ownership of everything.
I have a group of elite 15 year olds that I coach. They are the best players for their age in the area. We have had our first week of practice and I was amazed at how easily they allowed each other to be average. When I asked them if they knew their teammate was doing the drill incorrectly, they said yes. When I asked them why they didn't say something, they said that it wasn't their job.
I asked them then, 'Is it your job to win?'
All athletes seek to own the success of their teams. Most athletes will easily celebrate a pass they make that leads to a basket. Winners, on the other hand, will always seek to own the missed passes too. Special leaders seek to own the mistakes made every day in practice. They know that failure lies at their feet and that is why they are driven with manic energy to be constantly reminding, encouraging, correcting and inspiring their team every moment they are around them.
- Tyler